Oh I recognise that story VERY well! Hope you are doing OK
Thanks for posting this; it's wonderful.
Good luck with your weight gain effort. It would also be beneficial to monitor RMR,BMI, and calories burned. Online calculators for these are available to make these calculations easy and are available at http://howtogainweight123.com/rmr-calculation-bmr/ Typically, just enter age, weight, height and activities you have done during the day. The calculator's will do the rest and tell you how many calories you use for the whole day and when at rest. This could help you to know how to adjust your diet to either gain weight or lose weight.
Clearly, slowbeat has come to the wrong place! Welcome, anyway.